Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Tvůrce: Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you r...

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Episode 699: Grieving a Friendship That Hasn’t Officially Ended

Episode 699: Grieving a Friendship That Hasn’t Officially Ended

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend told him she needed space but won't tell him why

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2026-03-18 06:00:00 1868
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Episode 698: Dating While Trans in Your 60s

Episode 698: Dating While Trans in Your 60s

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is struggling to find connection with people his own age

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2026-03-16 06:00:00 2176
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Episode 697: Feeling Stuck After Grad School Rejections Letters

Episode 697: Feeling Stuck After Grad School Rejections Letters

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling like a failur after facing rejection after rejection

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2026-03-13 06:00:00 2309
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Episode 696: Either Way, She Left You

Episode 696: Either Way, She Left You

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's investigating his breakup and not liking what he's finding

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2026-03-11 06:00:00 1837
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Episode 695: Don't Get Burned By Your Sexy Friends' Chaotic Relationship

Episode 695: Don't Get Burned By Your Sexy Friends' Chaotic Relationship

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is in too deep with a couple friend

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2026-03-09 06:00:00 2152
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Episode 694: Love Isn't a Reward for Good Behavior

Episode 694: Love Isn't a Reward for Good Behavior

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who did everything right but still lost his relationship

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2026-03-06 07:00:00 1695
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Episode 693: You Were Allowed To Be Drunk

Episode 693: You Were Allowed To Be Drunk

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's wondering how much to disclose about a painful moment from their past

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2026-03-04 07:00:00 1948
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Episode 692: It's Not Pathetic To Tell Someone You Like Them

Episode 692: It's Not Pathetic To Tell Someone You Like Them

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuck in limbo with an ex who left her on read

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2026-03-02 07:00:00 1966
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Episode 691: Metabolizing Anger At Your Ex

Episode 691: Metabolizing Anger At Your Ex

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose post-breakup fury just keeps rising

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2026-02-27 07:00:00 2275
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Episode 690: Resentment Toward Someone Who Isn't "Working As Hard"

Episode 690: Resentment Toward Someone Who Isn't "Working As Hard"

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who thinks about her resentment for her sister-in-law every single day

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2026-02-23 07:00:00 2254
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Episode 689: My Friend’s Partner Crossed a Line

Episode 689: My Friend’s Partner Crossed a Line

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose friend has crossed the line multiple times while high

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2026-02-20 07:00:00 1994
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Episode 688: Love in Low Battery Mode

Episode 688: Love in Low Battery Mode

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend isn't showing her love in the way she can feel it

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2026-02-16 07:00:00 2477
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Episode 687: Where Love Ends and Self-Respect Begins

Episode 687: Where Love Ends and Self-Respect Begins

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wishes her relationship had ended with more dignity and respect

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2026-02-13 07:00:00 1982
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Episode 686: Learning to Sit With Other People’s Choices

Episode 686: Learning to Sit With Other People’s Choices

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriends' parents don't have the capacity to improve she wants them to

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2026-02-11 07:00:00 1890
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Episode 685: It's Time to Get Some New Friends

Episode 685: It's Time to Get Some New Friends

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to feel her feelings and not take on other people's perspectives

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2026-02-09 07:00:00 2081
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Episode 684: When Grief Hardens Into Anger

Episode 684: When Grief Hardens Into Anger

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to be consumed by bitterness about his ex

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2026-02-02 07:00:00 2194
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Episode 683: Compromise as a Living Conversation

Episode 683: Compromise as a Living Conversation

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who finds her mother-in-law difficult

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2026-01-30 07:00:00 1863
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Episode 682: Dreaming About My Crush During Naptime

Episode 682: Dreaming About My Crush During Naptime

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she's in the wrong relationship

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2026-01-28 07:00:00 1990
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Episode 681: Retroactive Rage

Episode 681: Retroactive Rage

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex won't respect the block

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2026-01-26 07:00:00 1926
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Episode 680: Being Enlightened Doesn't Mean You Don't Have Needs

Episode 680: Being Enlightened Doesn't Mean You Don't Have Needs

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner is gone for weeks at a time

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2026-01-23 07:00:00 2093
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Episode 679: My First Toxic Lesbian Break Up™

Episode 679: My First Toxic Lesbian Break Up™

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who just got out of her first chaotic queer relationship

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2026-01-21 07:00:00 2045
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Episode 678: Extroverts Dating Introverts

Episode 678: Extroverts Dating Introverts

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner has only met her important friends once or twice

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2026-01-19 07:00:00 1822
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Episode 677: The Abject Terror and Excitement of Liking Someone

Episode 677: The Abject Terror and Excitement of Liking Someone

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on a date with someone cooler than her and maybe blew it

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2026-01-16 07:00:00 1705
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Episode 676: Detoxing From a Chaotic Relationship

Episode 676: Detoxing From a Chaotic Relationship

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to learn what healthy love feels like with a nervous system trained on chaos

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2026-01-14 07:00:00 1946
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Episode 675: Might Not Be the Time to Fix Your Jealousy Issues

Episode 675: Might Not Be the Time to Fix Your Jealousy Issues

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to keep bringing up what her boyfriend did

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2026-01-12 07:00:00 2032
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Episode 674: When Our Social Circles Don't Match

Episode 674: When Our Social Circles Don't Match

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend has a very different social circle

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2026-01-09 07:00:00 1685
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Episode 673: I Read My Boyfriend's Journal and Hurt Myself

Episode 673: I Read My Boyfriend's Journal and Hurt Myself

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who read her boyfriend's journal and found something she didn't like

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2026-01-07 07:00:00 1823
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Episode 672: My Ex Husband Tells Everyone I'm a Wh*re

Episode 672: My Ex Husband Tells Everyone I'm a Wh*re

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex-husband is still trying to control her

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2026-01-05 07:00:00 1836
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Episode 671: Is My Bar Too High?

Episode 671: Is My Bar Too High?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who has a high bar for potential partners

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2025-12-19 07:00:00 1906
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Episode 670: Acting Out After Being Left On Read

Episode 670: Acting Out After Being Left On Read

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who doesn't want to be in her ex's bridal party

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2025-12-17 07:00:00 2119
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Episode 669: My Boyfriend is Threatened By My Journal

Episode 669: My Boyfriend is Threatened By My Journal

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't like that she has a past

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2025-12-15 07:00:00 2247
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Episode 668: Caught in a Cycle of Emotional Hunger

Episode 668: Caught in a Cycle of Emotional Hunger

Sam and Sierra answer a letter frome someone who is wondering if she chose the wrong guy

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2025-12-12 07:00:00 1846
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Episode 667: Can a Work Crush Ever Be a Good Thing?

Episode 667: Can a Work Crush Ever Be a Good Thing?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is taking solace in a work crush

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2025-12-10 07:00:00 1891
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Episode 666: Are Long-Lasting Relationships Inherently Better?

Episode 666: Are Long-Lasting Relationships Inherently Better?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if a longer relationship will lead to a better one

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2025-12-08 07:00:00 1814
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Episode 665: Navigating An Overly Negative World

Episode 665: Navigating An Overly Negative World

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is seeking care in an uncaring world

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2025-12-05 07:00:00 1864
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Episode 664: Do You Want Couple's Therapy With A Man Who Won't Say I Love You?

Episode 664: Do You Want Couple's Therapy With A Man Who Won't Say I Love You?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on vacation with her boyfriend and now maybe wants to just break up

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2025-12-03 07:00:00 1781
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Episode 663: Panicking Over A Potential Proposal

Episode 663: Panicking Over A Potential Proposal

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is panicking now that an engagement is on the table

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2025-12-01 07:00:00 1744
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Episode 662: When People Pity Your Happy Single Life

Episode 662: When People Pity Your Happy Single Life

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who is happy being single even though the world doesn't want her to be

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2025-11-28 07:00:00 1607
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Episode 661: The Shame We Carry

Episode 661: The Shame We Carry

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who, like all of us, is holding onto shame she doesn't need to

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2025-11-26 07:00:00 1754
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Episode 660: My Boyfriend's Brother's Girlfriend Hates Me

Episode 660: My Boyfriend's Brother's Girlfriend Hates Me

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend's brother's girlfriend hates her

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2025-11-24 07:00:00 1850
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